Chrissy & Dave 11/14/2009

This image courtesy of Mirage Photo, LLC.

Gosh it's hard to believe we are just getting around to posting this wedding. The couple was such a pleasure to work with. They are the type of couple who just exude love for each other. We met Chrissy in January of 2009 at the PWG Bridal Show, with her mom. Quickly after the show, Chrissy was so eager to meet with us, she even came to the meeting on crutches! She teaches dance class and had hurt her ankle, but was so excited to begin the planning & design she refused to reschedule!

One of Chrissy's list of concerns was the venue itself. Her husband is a proud Union Electrican here in St.Louis and could thing of nowhere else he would like to have his reception. Chrissy agreed, but was not thrilled with it cosmetically. The hall is used mostly for union meetings, and lacks bridal elegance. We assured her (repeatedly) that it would be ok. That we could make it beautiful. I think that was achieved!

In the pictures you find below, you will see the transformation of the hall. When we designed her color palette, we had fun. Chrissy was not afraid of color, infact she "loves it". We used intense monochromatic colors of purples, and reds to draw attention to the tables and away from the hall itself. Tone on tone is always very dramatic, and that suited this bride.


AFTER


The first challenge we ran into was the extremely large guest count the families had. We had to create a floor plan that would be unique, and still flow, but accomodate all of the bodies. The hall provided 6' banquet tables, and it was not in the budget to bring in other tables. So we created long tables that continued to create drama.
This image courtesy of Mirage Photo, LLC.

At the last minute, the couple found additional money and we added uplighting, fabric on the stage, and a monogram. This really helped warm up the room and mask the murals, and wall hangings. Pin spotting of the tables also showcased the beautiful centerpieces. This was key, as the hall had a strict "no candles" rule. The battery operated tealights just do not create the same light as candles, so thank goodness we had the pin spotting! Thanks to Millennium Productions for the lighting

The floral design was super fun! During our first sit down with the designers at Sisters Flowers, Chrissy's mom Nancy indicated how important having red carnations were to her. This was something that had been done for generations in their family. TERRIFIC!! Carnations are very bold color, very full, and much more inexpensive then many flowers. So we played on that tradition and Sisters created amazing bold floral.


As you can see from the images, the room was completely transformed the couple and their family was elated! We love when our clients have a little faith in us, and our vendors, because in the end they are the ones that reap the benefits. This wedding was a glowing success!




This is one of my favorites, as Chrissy is seeing her room for the first time she was overwhelmed and burst into tears. That tells me we did our job and gave her everything she hoped for.



Congrats Chrissy & Dave, we love you and thank you for letting us be a part of it!


These 4 images above courtesy of Mirage Photo, LLC.

Dream Team for this Event:
Wedding Coordinators and Event Designer: Lacy Branch Events
Floral Designers: Sisters Flowers
Lighting Designers: Millennium Design
Menus: Two Blue Doors,Inc.
Photo Credits: Von DeVore Photography Mirage Photo, LLC.

Do you cringe when you hear the “B” word?

Well this is a topic that seems to be even more relevant than ever. The “B” word I am talking about is Budget. But for this post, we are speaking specifically about a Wedding Budget. I spend hours and hours a week discussing this with our clients. In a nutshell, I have some straightforward points

1) Immediately after you say yes, do not pass go, do not collect $200, before you set a date... (Ha,ha But seriously), you need to sit down and have very candid discussions with any and all people that will donating towards the wedding. This conversation can be somewhat awkward to start with, since many people think it is tacky to discuss money. This is one time I disagree, and think it is absolutely imperative!
During this discussion, you may find some relatives do not want to offer an exact amount that they wish to donate. In this case, I recommend asking them a range they feel comfortable with. We also find some may tell you that they would just like to purchase something for the wedding, i.e.… cake, photographer, dj, etc. This is a great thing, you just need to specify this in the budget.

2) Once you have had this discussion with all family, create a worksheet that lists everyone’s contribution. It is important to ensure that the amount each is going to donate is a guaranteed, and not based around “if we can save” or “we can try to find it”. During these economic times, this is even more often the case. However, to reduce potential conflict, hurt feelings, etc, list this in a “possible” column, but we would not recommend counting on this.

3) Begin thinking and listing things you would like to have at your wedding. We tell our couples to rate them in order of importance. This will allow you to focus on things that are most important first and ensure funds are there, and work your way down the list.

4) Create a list of dates you would like to have your wedding. Again, rate them from highest to lowest. This step is especially important, as so many couples set the date and think about the budget later. It should be the opposite. The date can directly affect your budget. If you have a more modest budget, many times you can find opportunities to potentially save money by having your big day during an off season, or day of the week.

5) Hire a wedding coordinator!!

6) Once you hire the wedding coordinator, be honest with your budget! It is often a misconception that we as an industry charge based on your budget, or inflate vendor costs. Many hours of frustration, researching, etc are spent by couples trying to figure out what things cost on their own. A Wedding Coordinator can sit down with you and help work through your budget, and pair you up with vendors, venues, etc that can work within your budget. Many online budget worksheets are good, but they are national averages and do not take in account our local market.

You hired us to help you, but I cannot tell you how many times, clients don’t tell me the actual budget. They tell me a fictitious number, or a number they are hoping to stay at. They don’t always realize that we are not here to spend every penny. We are here to help them achieve the wedding they are hoping for.

7) Keep your guest count in mind… This is the number one way to increase or decrease your overall budget. What is often forgotten is that, not only do you have to think about cost per person for food and drink, but for everything. More people mean more invitations, more postage, more seats needed which require more tables, which require more linens and centerpieces, a larger banquet room, etc. It is a snowball affect. So be sure to think about guest count as the bigger picture.

These are just a tip of the iceberg, but it is our hope, that it can help many of you avoid frustration and costly mistakes.